Tuesday, July 28, 2009

DO YOU HAVE A CRYING NEWBORN BABY YOU WANT TO SOOTHE????


It`s a known fact that babies cry a lot when they are little.

After a baby is born, comes a few months when no one can sleep very good, because the baby cries every night. Babies cry because of many reasons: they can either be hungry or need to be changed. Babies need to sleep very much while they are little and so, after a day of sleeping they wake up in the middle of the night. Also, if the baby cries even if he is changed and feed then you should probably go with him to the doctor. A little baby has the immune system very weak. He can catch any disease very easily and so parents should be very careful.

I suffered a lot with my kid. The first 3 months my son was crying a lot. I don't know why he was crying. I thought may be because of hungry. After he took milk again he started crying. Especially night time he was not sleeping well. Lack of sleep for me. Constantly getting up in the middle of the night made it impossible for me, most of the times to fall back asleep.Hence it made me feel drowsy and tired almost every day. He didn't have much sleep either ... as he has to wake up, cry and wake me up.That way he started taking long naps during the day.
I still remember one day night he was continuously crying. Whole night no one slept at my home. Next day morning i met my doctor. I asked him. why kids are crying continuously??? My doctor explained all the reasons to me.

Reasons for crying:
1.In the early days, before feeding patterns are established, hunger is probably your baby's main reason for crying. Many parents find feeding responsively is easiest at the beginning.
2.Feeling too hot or too cold
Excessive crying:
Some babies simply do cry more than others. Reasons why include:
1.Temperament - each baby is different and some will be more 'fussy' than others and may seem to cry more, often right from birth, with no obvious explanation.
2. 'Jumpy' baby - some babies may be very sensitive to touch or to changes.
3.Difficult birth - for example, babies who were born prematurely, or those who've had to be in special care.
4.Environmental change - some babies can be more sensitive to changes in their surroundings or care routine.
5. New developmental stage - babies often cry more just before they take some big steps in learning or growth.
6.Tension - some babies sense when their parents are tense and it can affect their behaviour, but are you feeling tense because your baby cries a lot, or is he crying a lot because you're tense?
7.Colic or wind.
8.Needing a nappy change.
9. Feeling bored and wanting company.
10.Being upset and wanting a cuddle.
11.Getting overstimulated.
12.Wanting to be held.
13.Feeling pain

My doctor gave me lot of tips to soothing my baby. After that he stopped crying. He started good sleep at night time.

Comforting your baby:

1.Carry your baby close - snuggle him close to you in a baby carrier or sling.
2.Massage - gentle stroking and massage of all kinds can help calm your baby, but don't massage his tummy before he's four weeks old, miss out his spine and avoid nut-based oils such as almond oil.
3.Music - rhythmic sounds or music can help comfort newborns and even the droning sound made by a washing machine or vacuum cleaner help soothe some babies.
4.Movement - rock him in your arms or a cradle, or push your baby in his pram.
5.Fresh air - get out and about because even if the crying doesn't stop, it won't seem quite so bad outdoors.
6.Wind - some babies feel better after they've had a chance to bring up some wind, so try placing your baby in an upright position against your shoulder and patting his back gently.
7.Bath - a warm bath can instantly calm some babies, but be aware it can have the opposite effect.
8.Take your baby into a quieter room and soothe him by gentle cuddles and soft singing.

Don't get upset Your baby won't cry forever. Generally, as your baby gets older he'll get more interested in his surroundings and will cry less.

HAVING A CHILD IS A BLESSING. CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE, AND SINCE THEY ARE LITTLE, PARENTS TRY TO GIVE THEM EVERYTHING. THE JOB OF A PARENT IS TO RAISE HIS/HER CHILD THE BEST WAY HE/SHE CAN. THE YEARS WHEN YOUR CHILD IS LITTLE BABY ARE THE MOST PRECIOUS ONES. IT'S A GREAT FEELING TO HOLD IN YOUR ARMS, A LITTLE THING THAT WILL EVENTUALLY GROW UP AND BECOME JUST LIKE YOU
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Monday, July 13, 2009

THUMB/ FINGER SUCKING


I saw most of the kids they are sucking thumb or fingers while they are going to sleep/watching TV/ when they are getting boared/When they are crying. Thumb / Finger sucking is a bad habit because it could cause the child to have buck teeth and they are getting motions and vomiting and infections. Which could eventually require orthodontic treatment. Most children will stop this habit on their own between ages 2 - 4. However, it is much easier to break any habit when it first begins.

Always discuss any concerns you might have with your child's dentist. Understanding and breaking these habits will put you and your child on the right path to establishing a good oral hygiene regimen.

HOW DO WE STOP THUMB SUCKING:

Motivate your child by taking to him or her about why it is important to stop thumb-sucking. Explain that stopping will help him or her have a beautiful smile and nice teeth. Let your child know that continuing will cause problems with how his or her teeth grow.

Use a mirror to show your child the changes happening to his or her teeth or mouth shape.Talk about the unhealthy germs that are on our hands and how the child puts the germs in his or her mouth by thumb-sucking.

Talk to your child about becoming a "big boy" or "big girl" by stopping thumb-sucking.
Remind your child that he or she may be teased for continuing thumb-sucking.Make sure you choose the right time to have this discussion.

Children often suck their thumbs to relieve stress. Picking a stress free-time will help the child succeed. Also a child probably needs to be 4 or 5 in order to understand your reasoning and to be able to cooperate in this process.

TIPS:

For the first week, keep your child hands busy with puzzles, craft, games or other favorite activities. You may need to limit TV time since many children unconsciously suck their thumbs while watching TV.

You may wish to use a bandage or a bad-tasting substance such as thumb/ finger that is painted on the fingernail to remind your child not to suck the thumb. If the bandage or coating comes off replace it without being critical or embrassing your child.

Carefully remove your child's thumb/ finger his or her mouth during sleep. Thumb- sucking at night is the most difficult habit to break. Try offering a favorite stuffed animal or putting a hand puppet on your child's hand at bedtime as a reminder.

Avoid putting your child in situations that are upsetting while he or she is trying to break the thumb-sucking habit. Your child will likely turn to thumb-sucking for comfort. Make sure your child gets enough sleep and food during this time.

Don't shame or punish your child for thumb-sucking. This will only lower his or her self-esteem.
Throughout this process provide empathy and encouragement, and be available for your child. If you are consistent, patient, and positive your child will be more likely to succeed. Remember this is your child habit to break, and he or she must be willing to cooperate. Don't force your child to comply.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

PREVENT CHILDHOOD OBESITY

Childhood Obesity is on the raise. My pediatrician says that the number of over weight teens has nearly tripled in the past 2 decades. And that extra comes with a lot of baggage like an increase in type 2 diabetes in children, high blood pressure, and even some forms of cancer. Is there anything you can do???? PARENTS THINK ABOUT KIDS HEALTH. INTRODUCE HEALTHY AND NUTRITIOUS FOODS FOR YOUR KIDS.

BREAST IS STILL BEST:


Whatever your feelings on breast feeding it's still a great start for your baby's life and life long health. Breast feed is good for mom as well as good for kid.

MAKING SMART CHOICES:

Some of this sounds like common sense. Feed your kids healthful foods and they will be healthier. Big surprise, but stop and think about the long- term effects of a balanced diet. Just cooking dinner at home rather than pickup takeout can make a real difference in your child's life -- today and tomorrow.

LIMIT SWEETS AND FASTFOOD:


My pediatrician suggested me that don't give sugerated foods, junk foods to your kids. While your kids are still small get in the habit of offering fruits and vegetables at snack time --- instead of cookies and cupcakes. Aim to cook dinner most nights, and save the fast food for special occasions. Don't forget to consider portion sizes too --- both at home and when you eat out. As tempting as it is to push kids to join the clean plat club, It's better to let their stomachs decide when they are full. Little changes can make a big difference over time. Get your kids off to a good start with a balanced diet, and start them on the path to great health.